In a recent Dear Annie column, a reader shares their struggle with setting boundaries with a friend who constantly asks for last-minute favors. Feeling drained by the constant needs, the reader is seeking advice on how to communicate the need for firmer boundaries without jeopardizing the friendship.
Annie advises the reader to be honest with their friend and explain that while they value the friendship, they cannot always drop everything at a moment’s notice. Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining a healthy relationship, and a true friend will respect these limits.
In another letter, a brokenhearted mom seeks advice on her husband’s deep-seated hatred for their sons. The husband, Gus, has neglected and emotionally abused their children throughout their lives, causing immense pain for the family. Despite the mom’s efforts to seek counseling, Gus refuses to acknowledge the problem.
Annie advises the mom to focus on showing love and support to her sons, especially the youngest still living at home. Counseling for the family is recommended to help them heal from the trauma and learn to establish healthy boundaries in the face of emotional abuse.
Annie Lane’s new anthology, “How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” is now available, featuring columns on marriage, infidelity, communication, and reconciliation. For more information, visit http://www.creatorspublishing.com. Readers can submit their questions to dearannie@creators.com for a chance to be featured in Annie’s column.
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