Troubled in Texas writes to Abby seeking advice on her unhappy marriage. Despite feeling a connection with an old work friend who is also married, she is unsure about relocating to be with him. Abby advises her to think strategically and rationally, as uprooting her life for someone who has no plans to divorce could end in disaster.
On the other hand, Overlooked in Oregon shares her experience of feeling isolated at work despite having a good job with a supportive boss. Colleagues are cliquish and unwelcoming, leading to a depressing atmosphere. Abby suggests focusing on the positive aspects of her job and considering her options for the future, including seeking employment elsewhere if the isolation becomes too much.
Both letters highlight the importance of prioritizing personal well-being and making decisions that are in one’s best interest. Abby’s advice encourages the readers to think carefully about their situations and take steps towards improving their circumstances, whether it be in their relationships or work environments. Dear Abby is a column founded by Abigail Van Buren, offering thoughtful guidance on a wide range of personal issues.
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