A concerned individual, “Bad News Bearer,” seeks advice from columnist R. Eric Thomas on how to approach a delicate situation involving their sister’s ex-fiancé, Peter. Bad News Bearer is aware that Peter was deeply hurt when the engagement was broken off by their sister in favor of another man, Rick. Even though Peter and Bad News Bearer have not discussed the situation, Bad News Bearer is contemplating informing Peter about their sister’s happy marriage and growing family. However, their husband advises against getting involved and suggests letting fate take its course.
Thomas advises Bad News Bearer to stay out of it and allow Peter to navigate his own emotions and fate. Thomas notes that the fact that Peter has not shared about dating anyone since the breakup could indicate that he is still healing or may not be interested. By letting Peter come across the news naturally, he can process it in his own time and way without potentially causing further hurt by Bad News Bearer’s involvement.
Ultimately, Thomas encourages Bad News Bearer to respect Peter’s journey and let him handle any potential interactions with their sister and her family in his own time. The column concludes with the suggestion for readers to reach out to Thomas with any further questions or dilemmas.
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