In a recent letter, a reader expressed frustration over the financial strain caused by caring for her brother-in-law who recently left a psychiatric facility. The brother-in-law has been staying in a hotel paid for by the reader and her husband, as their mother-in-law has refused to help. The reader is worried about their financial future and the impact on their own family, including their 4-year-old daughter. Despite her concerns, the reader’s husband is adamant about providing for his brother.
Annie Lane advises the reader to speak with her husband and create a plan to support the brother-in-law within their financial limits. They should set a deadline for when the support will end, encouraging the brother-in-law to find alternative accommodations. If the brother-in-law is unwilling to help himself, continued support would only be a waste of time, money, and energy.
In a separate letter, a reader recommends a resource called Driving to Independence for those facing concerns about an elderly family member’s driving abilities. This organization helps assess and support drivers, allowing them to remain independent if possible. The reader suggests that the Concerned Granddaughter look for similar agencies in her area.
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