An interracial bride in California is conflicted after her conservative Texan brother declined to attend her wedding, suspecting it was due to disapproval of her divorce and marriage to a Latino. Now, she questions attending her nephew’s wedding in Texas. Advice columnist suggests discussing feelings with the brother, as well as attending the wedding if it feels safe emotionally. The key is to communicate openly and address any underlying issues within the family. Showing up is important, but having difficult conversations is crucial for healing and understanding. For more advice, readers can send questions to R. Eric Thomas at eric@askingeric.com or visit his website rericthomas.com.
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Seeking Advice from Eric: My Brother’s Intense Political Opinions Prompt Me to Consider Skipping a Wedding
