A daughter in Mississippi is struggling to continue her relationship with her father, who insists on driving despite being in his 80s and having had health issues. Her mother died in a car accident caused by an elderly driver, and she and her brother have pleaded with their father to stop driving. However, their stepmother encourages him, and he refuses to listen. The daughter is hurt and unsure of what to do, as she is concerned for his safety and the safety of others on the road.
In another letter, a person from Pennsylvania is uncomfortable with their best friend’s new same-gender partner, as they are overly intimate in public. The friend continues to bring the partner along despite being asked to maintain boundaries. The writer is considering ending the friendship if the situation does not improve.
Abby advises the daughter to consult her father’s doctor and inform the police about his driving if necessary. She also suggests the friend in Pennsylvania have a frank conversation with their best friend about their discomfort and set boundaries for their interactions.
Abigail Van Buren, the author of Dear Abby, offers advice on a variety of topics including relationships and family issues. Readers can reach out to her through the Dear Abby website or by mail.
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