A recent advice column received two letters from readers seeking guidance on different topics. One reader, “Two Homes,” is in their early 20s and recently ended a long-term relationship. They are conflicted about whether to move back to their home state or stay where they are for another year. Despite having a remote job in their home state and close friends and family there, they are hesitant to leave their current location by the coast, where they have built a life and enjoy the lifestyle. The columnist recommends visiting home with the intention of moving and paying attention to how it feels to be there as a new person. This could be an opportunity for a fresh start and a chance to bring back new knowledge gained from living elsewhere.
In another letter, “Name Games,” a boomer working in an office environment expresses frustration with people assuming others will understand their unusual names without making an effort to clarify them. As a first-generation immigrant with a different last name, the writer often spells and pronounces their name for others. The columnist advises asking for clarification when unsure about someone’s name and encourages the writer to continue clarifying their own name for others as it can make individuals feel valued and understood.
Readers can send their questions to the columnist R. Eric Thomas via email or P.O. Box and can follow him on Instagram for more advice. (Word count: 300)
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